Cause and effect

The world is a product of causes and effects. 

A nation, district, community, all subject to it

Some nations fairer better than others on some elements

The elements of culture, peace, tradition,  prosperity

So is the family

What parent does, children emulate

every decision and action effects children

if parents are cold and rude

thats all children know to act

if parents are warm, loving and kind

thats all children will learn

the parents are the cannons of conduct for children

Parents values become children's 

There is no trust and love

There is little loyalty

There is no growth as a family

the families that prosper

are normal with rifts

but have trust love and loyalty

there is greater bond

there is better trust

The leap

Consciousness of the moment
feeling of the moment
Moment of change

Change of direction
Conscious extra breath heaved
Sweet sweet breadth of relief

Change of wind
Breeze sifts between fingers
I can feel it
Velvety cool and moist

All senses free
From bondage of stress
Elated at the rebirth
I deliberately chose

Sense of accomplishment
At every paper and documents
Some filed away
Sone delegated
And some packed
They have destination
As I have

I am starting afresh
The journey on my own
Accompanying me
Guiding myself
With confidence
With knowledge
With wisdom
And make the better me everyday
For benefit of all

I have leaped!

Good deed

Hope the outcomes were as intended
Hope the family bonded. Closer than before

Before the well intentioned intervention
Hope the husband felt included
Hope he felt secure
He get felt that we are human
After all we are

Hope the wife has the wisdom
To take care if her family
To take lessons from some
N to nurture her own

God bless all

My Being

The me
All and whole
Feels blank
No me
No self
No pain

The fingers
On automotion
Tapping away random words
That fall together
Making possible sense


The mind
Making effort
Recapturing the day
Not much done
A friends obligation
Cleansing ritual

Assignment loaded
Dateline knocking
The clock tic tocking
Found myself defined
Life assurance and elation
In my simple exercise

I leap for change by being the change

Today, Yesterday and tomorrow

The yesterdays, 

Do I want to hold on,

Onto the sense of the familiarity, 

And comfort of predictability

And remain where I am

fester like an old log and fungus 

I have let it go

All that I have 

And all that I didn't own 

In true sense of owning 

I tell my soul 

You are Free 

Go claim your bliss 

Uncertainty looming

Nostalgia creeping

Only the familiarly unfamiliar

I march on eagerly

To embrace tomorrow 

With all my soul and being

Meet me there tomorrow! 

The journey

My journey was supposed to begin on 1st April but some how got delayed till 20 th. On 19 I decided to finally finally take off and let go of my self Imposed importance and indispensability. Then on 20th , went back to work place to clean up and hand over some important tasks. On the same day attended a Choku of a dear friend. We made plans to go to Punakha for blessings of the relics on 21 st April. On 21st morning found myself stranded between a Rimdo , office meeting and Punakha trip.   The meeting was not expected as I am on leave, and was easy to explain. Rimdo gave me a little unease to explain though a last minute call , it is still mine. Then it was rescheduled to later date on sat.

If each of us can define for ourselves a day of merit and harmonious gathering of the auspicious it would be 21st April for me.
- blessings of the relics of zhabdrung rinpoche, Garuda stone, relics in kuenrey , machey blessings .
- jigten Wangchuk and ngondro loong from legtso Lopen
- blessing and khadhar from JeKhenpo rinpoche
- hot stone bath in Pamtso .

Letting go of possessions is liberating

Gaw rangi zon ghazo, Chom rangi tsoen ghatsoe.

Today y realized the truth behind this saying.  I went to meet my aunt in a nearby village. There I found that she us not well. So I offered to take her to hospital. However she refused as she has to milk  the cows. The reason for not going to hospital us as simple as that.
Where as her sister is a happy go lucky lady. She spent a jolly good 2 months on pilgrimage. Now sige us again planing a trip to meditation centre. She also offered to come with us to hot spring.

Later the sister confided in me that she doesn't have anything in her name. How liberating that us tor her.  As I listened to her, I thought that she may sound very good on Bbs to talk. About how to live happily one day at a time. I want to live positively without cares like her. I was like her and miss that carefree me.